Energy givers and Energy takers*
*takers are also known as drainers or suckers
Every time you interact with another human being… you either give them energy (‘fill their bucket’) or you take their energy (‘drain their bucket.’).
In every instance you are either an energy giver or an energy taker.
If you want to be successful in life, you need to not only be an energy giver… you need to surround yourself with energy givers!
Energy givers make those around them feel better. 9 out of 10 people adamantly admit they are more productive when they are around positive people (aka ‘energy givers’).
It’s pretty simple… if every person in the inner circle of your life is an energy giver during a task or situation… the outcome becomes more intense and more productive by default. Nothing else is possible!
Obviously, if you have productive outcome on a consistent basis, you will make progress.
Not everyone can be nice all the time! Not everyone can provide you with the right word or advice in all situations. But everyone can be an energy giver!
Being an energy giver is a conscious choice. It is an attitude!
Energy givers raise the confidence of everyone they come in contact with.
Energy givers improve morale, chemistry, and performance.
Friends, co-workers and family members covet individuals who are energy givers.
Are you an energy giver? To find out, ask yourself these questions:
During your life, do you give energy
by listening and being sociable?
by being a supportive partner/friend/co-worker/family member?
by being enthusiastic?
by working as hard as you possibly can to make life simple and harmonious?
Or
Do you drain energy by being a handful, by arguing, and complaining at basic daily things?
If you want to take the best advantage of your life in relation to living in harmony with others and yourself, and have people notice and benefit from it, then you need to be an energy giver!
You will also benefit from it. No doubts!
Energy givers thank their life mates for favors.
Energy givers help others without being asked.
Energy givers cheer others when they need and when they don’t need it they praise them anyway!
Energy givers listen to others with their ears and their soul.
Energy givers communicate on defense without aggression or disrespect.
Energy givers show attention, give dedication and anticipate the resolve at work and play.
Energy givers always give that little extra. And it goes a long way...
Energy givers don’t mope after losing a match or an argument, they accept, understand and sincerely congratulate the opponent.
Make a conscious effort to be an energy giver… it will pay off… trust me!
As for Energy drainers… Well, they are opposite of all of the above!